How our brothers and sisters shape our identity?

 The bond between hands and feet is a kind of lasting love. Brothers and sisters are the only ones who accompany us for a long time in our journey of life.

Although there will be quarrels and unhappiness between brothers and sisters, they will forgive each other after all. Accompanied by something pure, strong, and beautiful, a kind of instinctive gratitude comes from the blood connection we share. We are a collective, a noisy, chaotic, but loyal and loving long-term collective. We can support and rely on each other.

The interesting point is that the black hawk will incubate all its young birds, and then stand aside and watch the larger young birds win the fight against the smaller ones, tear them to pieces, and then return to the nest to grow up safely.  The piglets are born with strangely convex teeth. When they are competing for feeding sites, they will use their teeth to attack each other.There is no difference between us humans and animals. After we were born, we started trying our best to get more attention from our parents to determine what our biggest selling points were, and then sold them cruelly. Scientists call it ‘de-identification’.

The preference of our parents is that we sometimes have to compete with our brothers and sisters or even kill each other. The parent’s preference for another child prevents him from getting enough attention and love. In the video, I also learned why it is easier for the first born child to succeed. The last born child possesses a kind of "vulnerable skills" ability-it can attract others or ease relationships, and is more humorous. Here to protect himself.

The bond between the hands and feet is a wonderful connection. Brothers and sisters can teach us many things, learn to understand each other, consider each other, protect each other, unite and so on. No matter how big a misunderstanding or quarrel, we must learn to stand on the other side's standpoint and think about each other, and then understand each other. The behavior of broken siblings is undesirable, and siblings should love and accompany each other. Life is short and limited, never staying for anyone, brotherhood may be the biggest gain of our life. Know how to cherish each other.

Do you have any brothers or sisters? If so, how did you get along?


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Comments

  1. it's so interesting. I like the sentence like "they will forgive each other after all". it's point of another interactions. I like this point!!

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